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June 19, 2017

#37- How To Reduce Your FLAKE RATE Astronomically!

June 19, 2017/ Adam Ooi

Are girls not responding to you? Are you frustrated with putting in all the effort to meet her, only to come up short when it matters most? Then bust out that notepad as I go 100% tactics to help you reduce your flakes!

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Socially Savvy; Reading the situation & making things easy for the person on the other end. - This DM I sent to a client is applicable to ALL high pressure social situations. Take a breath, and read what's going on. It's not that you couldn't close her at the table, it's 100% possible, but why would you choose the harder option, when if you applied yourself you could make things so much easier? That's my ethos towards social situations across the board. I want things to be as easy, simple and effective as possible, for both myself and the other person. Drop me a comment below + Tag/share this with someone close! #thebowl
So many girls have 0% awareness around what their body is saying to the rest of the bar. Your eyes, your body language, who you're engaging, all of these are signals that tell someone whether you're an open gate, or the Great Wall of China. I've spent the last 7yrs going up to girls who look like they defending the wall, only to realise that the majority of them were dying of thirst for someone to come and say hey. So why the closed signal? She didn't know. She wasn't aware. So when a girl DMs me asking "best way to approach a guy at a bar?", I'm telling her that it's less about you physically approaching him, and more about you sending the open signal to him. 2 secs of ext. eye contact is more than enough to tell a guy you're keen. If he's not biting on that, he's either too shy or not interested. "But Adam, how do you know if it's the former?" Well he'll keep glancing over throughout the night. In this case, at the max, you can walk over and spark it off by saying "hey :)" That's it. Nothing more. If he's not willing to lead after you've given him a golden egg, then he's not worth the time. It's not your role as the feminine being to lead him. At a core level, he doesn't want you to approach him, all of his DNA is wired to be the pursuer. It's just conditioned fear that's getting in the way. So help him out by alleviating that fear, give him some open eyes, and let it play from there. Drop me a comment below + Tag/share this with someone close ❤ #thebowl
Many ways of Meditation. I've received a few msgs recently re: my way of meditation. On my story I've been sharing whatever my focus is for that day/night sesh, and some are confused with why I'm focussing on anything at all "Adam, isn't meditation about not thinking?", and others questions alike. The ways of meditation are many, and they all serve their own purpose. Over the last 7yrs I've explored many of these ways and continue to experiment with others/my own creations. The Dalai Lama's "Analytical & Profound" method is one I use most nights. In which I choose an idea, concept or feeling to focus on, and I begin by analytically understanding it in full. Once I feel satisfied, I then move into the "Profound" stage, by cutting off all thought, and now feeling what that understanding is. So when you see a "focus" in my story, that's the method I'm using. Some nights I'll use different methods for different reasons. Some days, the method is making a bowl of matcha, sometimes the method is staring at myself in a mirror. At the end of the day, there is no right or wrong, only; why. Why are you doing this? Then the method will make sense. What method of meditation are you currently exploring? Let me know in a comment below & Tag/share this with someone who can relate ❤
Breathe. When your life comes to an end, could you look back & say you breathed in each and every moment? Could you say that you knew what a flower really was, what the cold water really felt like... and how the joy of the moment was always there for you? Breathe. - I've been floating around with these gigantic mala beads I picked up at a garage sale last week. I say that metaphorically because they're actually ripe heavy. But there's something so comforting about wearing them and just, breathing. Let me know your thoughts below + Tag/share this with someone close ❤🌹 #breathe

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